Quit complaining ... cowboys don't cry
Start Doing To Succeed ... You might think there is no correlation between complaining and success when in fact there is a connection.
When you are spending time complaining about the obstacles you are facing, you are wasting so much time being negative that you are actually loosing chances to move forward. Instead of thinking of challenges as problems, think of them as opportunities.
The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes Marcel Proust.
Choosing success
You have a choice in life to accept your position or change it. If you choose to plug along in life hoping that something will change for the better, you will not get very far.
Always remember that when it comes to changing your circumstances, you can you have that power. As an example, women who are in abusive situations often feel controlled and powerless to get out of the situation. They have the same choice of changing their circumstances as you do. If your circumstances lower the chances of success, you need to change them.
I heard a quote once, something to the effect of I am happy to pay taxes, because it means that I am earning a salary
I am happy to wash the dishes in the evening, because it means I had food on the table.
How you see the world will be reflected in how it appears to you.
The same philosophy can be said of an intolerable situation where you feel that there is no chance of you finding successful and having a fulfilled life if you change your outlook and take control of the situation, you just might find a rainbow hiding around the next corner, and if your eyes are open, you will get to see it!
In the long run, we shape our lives and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die, and the choices that we make are ultimately our responsibility. Eleanor Roosevelt
A little about Shirley...I live in Durban, South Africa. My goal in life at the moment is to put myself in a position whereby I can spend time both on working towards my career and income requirements as well as having the freedom to enjoy lifes pleasures relationships, the sun, the dogs and being able to read just for the fun of it! Do you have insomnia or difficulty in sleeping? Click for help